This article is devoted to working mothers. Read
on to get some advice for a working mother/mom.
Working Mother
With the ever-increasing demand and the cost of living steeply scaling
upwards, most of the couples, today, are working individuals. As a
result, the pressure borne by a woman doubles. The need to maintain a
balance between office responsibilities and home duties is high. In
addition to it, if the woman is a mother, the pressure triples. For a
working mother, there are a number of things that need to be considered,
before going to the workplace. Right from what her child would eat to
who would take care of the child in her absence to whether the child
would be safe or not, the list of issues and questions go endless.
Children, spouse and parents should realize that playing the part of a
working mother is not at all easy. It gets very difficult to juggle
between home and office. As if this were not enough, the rising work
load and the guilt of not being able to spend adequate time with the
kids completely bores a mother down. Most working mothers would agree to
the fact that life is rushing past them and they have no control over
it. While she cannot take her office frustrations at home, the tensions
and the stress related to home must not hamper the office work. If you
are in a similar situation and looking for some respite, you are in the
best place. Read through the following lines to get tips about how to
maintain that balance between work, home and children.
Tips For Working Mothers
- The first thing would be to stop feeling guilty about not being
able to spend too much time with your kids. Remember, the quality
time spent together is always more important than quantity time.
- Never ever resort to using money or gifts, as a compensation for
your absence. It will not only spoil the children, but also make
them lose the importance of money in life.
- Having a helping hand is always a good idea. However, make sure
that the domestic help you are hiring is dependable.
- Learn the art of time management. They will go a long way in
maintaining the balance between office and home.
- Find small little ways of connecting with your child, like call
him/her daily from office, go for a little walk after dinner to
discuss how was his/her day, and so on.
- Make it a point that ever week, you dedicate at least one day for
your children. For instance, plan your Sunday in such a way that
while in the morning you spend time with your family doing household
chore, in the evening all of you move out for a family dinner or a
family outing.
- Do not forget to spend some time on yourself. It is very
important for you to be in a good shape, in order to fulfill your
responsibilities.