Namakaran, or naming of the child, is
the first real ceremony held for the newborn child. It is usually held
on the twelfth day of the child's birth, though, according to one
convention, it can be held on any day after the tenth day, and before
the first birthday.
The twelfth day is also when the child's horoscope is formally drawn
up.
The first ten days after birth are considered an 'impure' time for the
mother and child. On the twelfth day, the mother and child are given a
ritual bath. The mother swathes the baby in a piece of new cloth,
applies kajal to its eyes, and makes a little beauty mark on the cheek.
The baby is then placed in the father's lap to be blessed. The priest
offers prayers to all the gods and to Agni, the god of fire and the
purifying factor, the elements, and the spirits of the forefathers, and
entreats them to bless and protect the child. He also places the sheet
on which the child's horoscope is written, in front of the image of the
deity, for its blessings.
Then, the father leans towards the baby's right ear, and whispers its
chosen name. Usually, the father does not whisper directly into the
child's ear, but uses a betel leaf or its silver imprint, or a few
leaves of kusa grass to direct the words to the child's ear.
The Rig Veda prescribes the formula of giving a name with four
components: the nakshatra name, the name of the deity of the month, the
family deity's name, and the popular name by which the child will
generally be addressed.
This system, however, is rarely followed these days. The usual practice
is to give one formal name and, if necessary, a short name by which the
child will be called.
Some people coin a suitable name from a combination of the parents'
names. In certain communities, the first child is named after the
paternal grandparent; in others, the first son is given the same name as
the father. Sometimes, the baby is named after the nakshatra, or star,
of its birth. The child could also be named after the family deity or
guru.
After the naming ritual is over, friends and relatives who have come
for the ceremony then bless the child and touch some honey or sugar to
its lips. It is a moment of all-round happiness if the baby smacks its
lips.